Fay’s videos have garnered thousands of views, receiving likes, comments, and shares from the show’s stars. She hopes to see a wheelchair user compete on the show someday.
A woman who began using a wheelchair at 16 due to ME has captivated an online audience by modifying Strictly Come Dancing routines to be wheelchair-accessible, gaining attention from the show’s celebrities.
Fay Crockett, a 25-year-old dance instructor, started dance lessons at a young age, viewing it as a mere “fun hobby”.
In 2017, at 16, she started using a wheelchair following a diagnosis of myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME), facing “constant stares” and “judgmental remarks” from others.
That same year, her condition led her to be bedbound. While confined to bed, she choreographed dances mentally to “every piece of music” she encountered, realizing dance could “become something more” for her.
In 2020, she attempted to return to in-person ballet classes, but the commute proved too taxing on her body, leading her to stop.
During the Covid-19 pandemic, when professional dancers offered online classes, she found she could dance from home. Since then, Fay has trained with professional wheelchair dancer Kate Stanforth and obtained a dance teaching certification.
Since 2023, she has been adapting Strictly Come Dancing routines for wheelchair use on her TikTok account, @dancingwithm.e, with one video surpassing 90,000 views.
Looking forward, Fay hopes to see a wheelchair user compete on the main show and to be involved with the show herself.
Fay told Chic: “Dance will always look different for me, but it’s mine again. And that, to me, is everything.
“I never anticipated the response I got.
“My videos were liked, shared, and commented on by celebrities, professional dancers, judges, and choreographers, and one was even featured on It Takes Two!”
Fay became a wheelchair user at age 16
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Fay participated in various local dance classes weekly, from disco to Latin, considering it a “fun hobby”.
However, in 2017, she began using a wheelchair after being diagnosed with ME, experiencing severe fatigue, brain fog, nausea, vomiting, blackouts, weakness, and seizures exacerbated by physical and mental exertion.
Fay stated: “Initially, I was very hesitant to accept the need for a wheelchair, but it quickly became evident it was my only option to leave the house… adapting to using a wheelchair involved much more than just getting accustomed to the equipment itself.
“There were constant stares, occasional judgmental comments, and the deep fear of being seen by anyone I knew – a reflection of my own, very human, internalized ableism.”
In 2017, her ME caused her to become bedbound, and she began to realize dance could “become something more” for her.
“While I was stuck in bed, I used to choreograph dances in my head to every piece of music I heard,” Fay explained.
“From that moment, I knew that if I ever got the chance to dance again, I would do everything I could to make it happen.”
At the start of 2020, she attended ballet classes, and her teacher was “wonderfully supportive”, adapting the classes for her needs.
However, the journey to the studio took “too much of a toll” on her body, so she had to stop attending.
During the Covid-19 pandemic, dance became “more accessible” as many dancers such as Strictly Come Dancing’s Amy Dowden and groups like Diversity hosted online classes.
“One of my favorite moments was the first time I completed an entire Diversity choreography,” she added.
“I shared it online and to my amazement, they saw it, shared it, and complimented me!”
In 2020, she discovered Kate Stanforth, a professional wheelchair dancer, and began joining virtual classes at the Kate Stanforth Academy of Arts, which she described as “life-changing”.
She said: “Kate believed in my potential and mentored me personally, even when accessibility barriers made traditional dance exams impossible.”
Since then, she has achieved several qualifications, including Levels One, Two, and Three in Progressing Ballet Technique, and qualified to teach Level One of Rambert Grades – a modern, creative contemporary dance syllabus focusing on self-expression and inclusivity.
In 2022, she also began teaching weekly 45-minute online dance classes through the academy.
In 2023, after being a Strictly Come Dancing fan for “as long as (she) can remember”, she set herself a challenge – to adapt one couple’s dance routine each week to make it wheelchair friendly.
Fay was diagnosed with ME in 2017
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She began posting these videos on social media under the handle @dancingwithm.e, and said they were liked, shared, and commented on by the show’s judges and professional dancers.
She was even featured on Strictly: It Takes Two in 2023.
She has continued to post the videos, with several receiving more than 90,000 views.
“My process starts on Saturday night while I’m watching the live show – I take note of which dances or styles might work best, avoiding routines that rely heavily on lifts or long periods in hold,” Fay explained.
“If a routine has lots of expressive upper-body movement or musicality, it usually catches my eye as the one to adapt.
“In a jive, I might use my arms to recreate the kicks and flicks that are normally done with the feet, or use controlled contractions of my upper body to capture that signature bounce.”
She then spends her Sunday breaking the dance down into different moves and records the video in one take.
However, she sometimes receives “ignorant or dismissive” comments on her videos, as many do not understand that, despite using a wheelchair, she can stand for short periods of time – though doing so can cause “significant pain, fatigue, and collapses”.
She added: “What bothers me most isn’t the criticism itself, but the thought that it might discourage others.”
Fay believes Strictly Come Dancing is “setting a fantastic example” for inclusivity.
She said: “There’s sometimes a misconception that contestants with disabilities are treated differently or receive pity votes, but I don’t believe that’s the case at all.
“I also love that, in recent years, we’ve had more than one contestant with a disability or health condition in the same series, such as Chris McCausland and Tasha Ghouri last year.
“It breaks the outdated idea that there can only be a single ‘token’ disabled celebrity each season.”
Looking ahead, Fay would love to see a wheelchair user compete on the main show one day, and to be involved with the show herself, either by consulting on choreography or even appearing on it.
However, her ME continues to impact her body after dancing – after teaching one dance class, she spends the rest of the week recovering and “rationing (her) energy.”
“I never imagined this would become part of my life, but my wheelchair has come to represent freedom, especially when it allows me to do things I love like dance,” she added.
