Rob Reiner’s ‘egocentric’ son Nick had serious ‘behavioral issues’ from a very young age

Rob and Michele Reiner with their son Nick

Tragic Incident Involving Reiner Family

Rob and Michele Reiner’s son, Nick Reiner, has been arrested on charges related to their deaths. Reports indicate Nick had significant behavioral challenges from an early age.

Early Behavioral Issues

Alanna Zabel, a yoga instructor for the Reiner family in the early 2000s, shared insights into Nick’s behavior. She noted that Nick, now 32, frequently disrupted yoga sessions at their Los Angeles residence.

The disturbances, described as intense and involving screaming, would last around 20 minutes, according to Zabel’s interview with the Daily Mail.

Nick Reiner had significant behavioral challenges from a young age. Getty Images for Wynn Las Vegas
Alanna Zabel, who taught yoga to the Reiners, described frequent interruptions by Nick. Instagram/@aziamyoga

Efforts to Address Behavior

Zabel, who holds a degree in child development, was asked by Rob and Michele to conduct private yoga sessions with Nick in hopes of calming his heightened nervous system.

She described Nick as a boy with behavioral issues, often agitating those around him but trying to understand his own behavior. Zabel focused on physical activities to help him feel accomplished, though she found him inexhaustible.

Nick’s disruptions were intense and involved a lot of screaming. FilmMagic
Rob and Michele sought private yoga sessions for Nick to help manage his behavior. REUTERS

Potential Underlying Factors

Zabel speculated whether ADHD might have been a factor, as it can increase the likelihood of substance abuse. Nick has struggled with drug addiction for much of his life.

She emphasized the need for disarming such energy and noted that many children with similar intensity grow into well-adjusted adults.

Nick, seen here with his father Rob in 2016, had ongoing behavioral issues. WireImage
Zabel aimed to exhaust Nick physically to foster mindfulness, but found it challenging. FilmMagic

Challenges of Hollywood Lifestyle

Zabel highlighted various factors influencing child behavior, including genetics and the pressures of living in Hollywood, where drugs are easily accessible.

She suggested that despite the Reiners’ efforts to address Nick’s issues, he perceived his circumstances negatively, adopting an egocentric mindset.

Nick’s energy and potential ADHD were considered factors in his challenges. Getty Images for Teen Vogue
Nick has battled drug addiction for over half his life. BACKGRID

Family’s Efforts and Legacy

Zabel believes Rob and Michele provided appropriate guidance, tackling issues directly despite their busy lives. However, Nick’s personal choices may have contributed to his struggles.

This experience inspired Zabel to write “A Chair in the Air,” a children’s book about a boy named Nicky with big feelings and energy.

The Reiner family, pictured with their children, faced significant challenges with Nick. michelereiner/Instagram
Nick, seen with his family in September 2025, faced personal challenges despite support. REUTERS

Zabel shared that the Reiners approved her storytelling but chose not to engage in the book’s publication, following their therapist’s advice.

She concluded by emphasizing the importance of attention for children to thrive, urging parents to be present and attentive.

Rob Reiner was 78, and Michele was 68. They are survived by their children, Jake Reiner, 34, and Romy Reiner, 28, as well as Tracy Reiner, 61, Rob’s adopted daughter from his first marriage.

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